What is medical stress?
Medical stress refers to physical and emotional responses to pain, injury, serious illness, medical procedures, hospitalisation or invasive or frightening treatment experiences.
Medical stress can vary from mild to severe and presents differently depending on the age of the child and previous life experiences. It can go up and down throughout a child’s medical journey.
A new injury, acute illness, diagnosis or the start of medical treatment can be stressful and overwhelming for children and families. These reactions are normal. With the right support, children and families are resilient and recover well together. We’ve listed some resources to help children and families prepare for their medical journey and cope with stressful experiences.
Some children and families benefit from more specialised psychological support.
See the mental health resources section below and our CARE Trauma Resilience Intervention page for more information.
Preparing for hospital and medical procedures
Getting ready for a stay in hospital or medical procedure takes emotional and practical preparation. These resources may help.
- Preparing young children for hospital and medical procedures [PDF 625.93 KB]
- Frankie’s procedural toolkit [PDF 2289.72 KB]
- Preparing for an operation + video
- Child preparation for Burns clinic appointment
Coping in hospital
There are many services available to support children with pain management, mental health and wellbeing, and preparing for procedures. The Queensland Children’s Hospital family services and facilities page provides advice and support.
- Supporting your baby in hospital (CHQ tipsheet)
- Caring for your sick child – a guide for parents and carers (CHQ booklet)
Coping with medical traumatic stress
These resources help parents recognise and understand signs of medical traumatic stress in children and adults. There’s practical advice on how parents and caregivers can look after themselves while supporting their child in the first few weeks after an injury, illness, or medical procedure.
- Medical traumatic stress: Babies [PDF 505.57 KB] (tipsheet)
- Medical traumatic stress: Toddlers [PDF 583.76 KB] (tipsheet)
- Medical traumatic stress: Preschoolers [PDF 564.26 KB] (tipsheet)
- Medical traumatic stress: Caregivers [PDF 739.13 KB] (tipsheet)
- Babies, young children, and stressful events animation
- Helping your child after a difficult medical procedure [PDF 1651.54 KB] (infographic)
These tipsheets provide specific advice about supporting children’s social and emotional wellbeing after medical trauma.
- Coping with fear and anxiety [PDF 921.88 KB]
- Coping with separation anxiety [PDF 1038.7 KB]
- Coping with challenging behaviours [PDF 540 KB]
- Coping with sleeping problems [PDF 881.56 KB]
Coping tools and resources for emotional wellbeing and relaxation
- Frankie feelings cards [PDF 11734.23 KB]
- Frankie coping cards [PDF 7996.45 KB]
- Frankie’s feelings poster [PDF 2369.7 KB]
- Frankie’s coping strategies poster [PDF 3073.53 KB]
- Relaxation and mindfulness strategies for children [PDF 552.89 KB]
- Relaxing with Birdie
- Grounding strategies for coping with stress - adults [PDF 350.98 KB]
- Books about emotions
- My Hospital Music and Let’s Sing Together - songs and lyrics
Condition specific resources
Visit our health A to Z guide for information on specific conditions, symptoms and treatments.
Visit our resource library for publications, videos and other resources.
Mental health resources
Coping with a child’s injury, illness or medical condition can be tough. If medical stress gets worse, hinders the child’s medical care, interferes with daily life, or affects relationships, professional support may be helpful.
Do you need immediate support?
Call Triple Zero (000) if someone’s life is in immediate danger.
If you or someone you are caring for needs support, here are some options available for free all day, every day of the year:
- Kids Helpline: Call 1800 55 1800 or WebChat (5-25 years)
- Lifeline: Call 13 11 14, text 0477 13 11 14 or try Online Chat (all ages)
- Beyond Blue: Call 1300 22 4636 or Webchat Support Service (all ages)
- 13YARN: Call 13 92 76 to talk with an Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander Crisis Supporter
- QLife:Call 1800 184 527 or Chat (qlife.org.au) for LGBTIQ+ peer support (3pm-midnight).
- 1800RESPECT: Call 1800 737 732 or text 0458 737 732, chat online or video call via the 1800RESPECT website for people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence.
Mental health support in the community
- Your child’s treating medical team or general practitioner (GP) is the best place to start. They can provide information, resources, and advice on which type of professional support can best help your child’s recovery and provide referrals.
- Parent help lines: The Raising Children Network has a comprehensive list of parent helplines and hotlines
- Child health Service: offers universal child health clinics and parenting advice and support.
- Headspace: Australia’s National Youth Mental Health Foundation, providing early intervention mental health services (12-25 year olds).
- Child and Youth Mental Health Services: free public mental health service for children and young people (0-18 years) with severe or complex mental health needs.
- Infant, child and youth mental health professionals:
Need help finding support?
For more information about the role of different mental health practitioners, see: Practitioners speak - Emerging Minds
Pregnancy Birth and Baby: Australian Government service offering support and information for expecting parents, and parents of children 0-5 years. Call 1800 882 436 (7am-midnight, 7 days a week).
Emerging Minds: Provides useful resources and information to help build support networks for you and your child.
Healthdirect’s National Health Services Directory can help you to find a GP, counsellor, psychologist or other health professional in your local area.
Head to Health: National mental health website to help navigate and connect to mental health and wellbeing services. For support options that might be relevant for your family’s background or identity try:
- Support for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people
- Support for people from different cultural backgrounds
- LGBTIQA+ people | Head to Health
Online information and intervention programs
Medical trauma
- Meg Foundation
- EPIC (Effective Peri-Procedural Communication)
- Healthcare Toolbox: Coping with Stress Reactions after Injury or Illness
- After The Injury - Helping parents help their kids recover (The Children's Hospital of Philadelphia)
Trauma
- The National Child Traumatic Stress Network
- Your Recovery (Phoenix Australia)
- Child Trauma Recovery
- UK Trauma Council
Parenting and mental health
- Emerging Minds - Advancing Australian children's mental health
- Sleep with Kip: Simple sleep help for peaceful bedtimes
- Circle of Security International
- Positive parenting (Triple P)
- Tuning in to Kids for Parents
Evidence-based online programs are freely available, to support children experiencing anxiety:
Online Programs | Age | Description |
---|---|---|
The BRAVE program | 3-17 years | Interactive, online treatment program for child and adolescent anxiety. |
Fear-Less Triple P | 6+ years | Online parenting course to help children overcome anxiety and build emotional resilience. |
Momentum (momentumhub.org.au) | 7-17 years | Tailored online treatment programs to help children and adolescents learn new ways to cope with feelings of anxiety and/or unhappiness, sleep difficulties, and substance use. |